Can Praying For The Deceased Make A Difference?


It is common practice among Muslims and other faiths alike to hold ceremonies in which relatives come together to pray for forgiveness for someone who has passed away. There are “Quran Khawanis” in which it is allegedly believed that reading the Quran would somehow benefit the deceased. People go so far in this dogma that they send someone else on behalf of the deceased for pilgrimage, in the hopes that the reward may be given to the deceased person. From an empathetic point of view, I understand. I really do. There are withdrawal symptoms in play and it may give a sense of satisfaction to pray or do whatever you can to “help”. However, I am sad to break the bitter truth to you: it doesn’t make any difference.

When a person dies, his account of deeds is closed. Nothing can be added or subtracted. We are judged on the Day of Judgement purely on the merit of our own actions. And it’s only fair this way, if you think about it. If the wicked people could go to heaven just because their family prayed a lot, would that be justice? Likewise, if the deceased was a good person, he would then naturally go to heaven. What would be the purpose of your prayers, then? Let’s see what the Quran has to say about this:

Every person is responsible for his own actions

That no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another – 53:38

“And that the human being can have nothing except what he has earned (good or bad) – 53:39

And that his effort is going to be seen – 53:40

And then he will be fully rewarded for it – 53:41

Whoever chooses to follow the right path, follows it but for his own good; and whoever goes astray. goes but astray to his own hurt; and no bearer of burdens shall be made to bear another’s burden – 17:15

And none can carry the load of another; and even if it calls on another to bear part of its load, no other can carry any part of it, EVEN IF THEY ARE RELATED. You will only be able to warn those who are concerned towards their Lord while unseen, and they hold the contact prayer. And whoever contributes, is contributing for himself. And to God is the final destiny –  35:18


Even the Prophet cannot redeem guilty people

Ask forgiveness for them, [O Muhammad], or do not ask forgiveness for them. If you should ask forgiveness for them seventy times – never will Allah forgive them. That is because they covered the truth about Allah and His Messenger, and Allah does not guide the Fasiqeen – 9:80


 Prophets couldn’t save their own family. What makes us think that we can?

Prophet Nooh tried to save his son but was reprimanded by God very severely as he was not among the reformists. Upon this, Nooh asked for forgiveness (11:45-47).

Prophet Ibrahim sought protection for his father from God, but to no avail. (9:114)

Loot’s wife was not saved from the punishment. (11:81)


There is no intercession on the Day of Judgement

And fear a Day when no soul will suffice for another soul at all, nor will intercession be accepted from it, nor will compensation be taken from it, nor will they be aided – 2:48 (Also check 2:123, 2:254, 39:44, 43:86, 74:48)


All these points go on to prove that we are judged purely based on our actions. As I have previously mentioned in an article, prayer alone does not influence the outcome – action does.

Having said that, it just baffles me that this has become common practice in our society, especially since the Quran is crystal clear on this subject. If one would stop, and think just for a moment – one immediately realizes how illogical a practice this is. But, perhaps, this is what happens when “Muslims” stop reading the Quran and get their information from secondary sources. We were never supposed to be a dogmatic lot. You would be surprised to see the amount of emphasis the Quran puts on critical thinking, especially when it comes to matters of religion as this is where most of the exploitation is done. But it’s easily overlooked  as these “scholars” portray themselves as representatives of God. Only if we would read the book we so dearly claim to believe…


For those who persevere in doing good there is the ultimate good in store, and more [than that].No darkness and no ignominy will overshadow their face: it is they who are destined for paradise, therein to abide – 10:26

On the other hand, there is he who has inevitably deserved suffering (for his persistence in following false ‘authorities’). Can you save the one already committed to fire? – 39:19





6 thoughts on “Can Praying For The Deceased Make A Difference?

  1. After Allah reminded Bani Israel of the favours that he has granted them, He warned them about the duration of the torment which He will punish them with on the day of Resurrection.
    Neither Intercession, Ransom, or assistance will be accepted on behalf of Disbeliever.(2:123) (39:44) (43:86) (74:48)
    (11:45-47) (11:81) (9:114)

    The Messenger of Allah was given three things.

    He was given the five prayers on the night of Israa (17:1) and Miraaj (53:13-15)

    He was given the concluding verses of surah al- Baqarah (2:284-286)

    Intercessor- remission of serious sin for those among his Ummah who do not associate anything with Allah.

    ” Indeed Allah does not forgive association with Him but He forgive what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associate others with Allah has certainly gone far astray.” (4:116)


    • Oh, the christian belief of Jesus looking out for his followers has found it’s place in Islam. The verses against intercession are not limited to bani Israel, they’re for everyone. The whole idea of intercession goes against accountability. Therefore, anyone who believes in intercession doesn’t really believe in accountability – which is a requirement as per the Quran so that people take their guard and be aware and watchful of their actions.


  2. Hasbunalloh wa nikmal wakeel .. we can allways pray to Allah to change the others alive or dead, because He is Most Passionate but we can not give anything. e.g. al-fatihah or ayahs to the deads, as their amal has ended.


  3. Perhaps you are jumping to conclusions… what do you say about this Sahih Hadith?

    Narrated AbuHurayrah:

    When the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) prayed over a dead person, he said: O Allah, forgive those of us who are living and those of us who are dead, those of us who are present and those of us who are absent, our young and our old, our male and our female. O Allah, to whomsoever of us Thou givest life grant him life as a believer, and whomsoever of us Thou takest in death take him in death as a follower of Islam. O Allah, do not withhold from us the reward (of faith) and do not lead us astray after his death.

    Grade : Sahih (Al-Albani)

    Reference : Sunan Abi Dawud 3201
    In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 113
    English translation : Book 20, Hadith 3195


    • Peace be upon you, Suleiman. I am not saying that you cannot pray for your loved ones. Pray all you like, but realize that you’re praying only to satisfy your soul. Your prayers would not in any way affect the outcome of the decision making process (heaven or hell). We all are accountable for our actions. 🙂

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